Back From a Day Off of Blogging

Yes, I did not post anything on here yesterday...so sue me. We had plumbing problems in the shape of roots in our water sewer line the night before last at the Mikey D abode. Fear not, 1 day later and a little lighter in the wallet department, all is well again and we have liquid running again...yay!!!!

Learning this week that many of my friends are having marital problems. One of our friends has already split earlier this week from her husband and another couple are having many arguments and problems at their home. Let's hope that simmers down and works itself out. Having been in that position a few years ago myself, where I almost threw everything that meant anything to me down the drain, I know what it's like. But having gone through that, I now have a different attitude in my marriage that I think alot of people don't know until it's too late. Yes, I'm still lazy and still a little mean/hateful to my loving spouse but I know where to stop. In arguments, I know what's worth arguing about and what's petty. (And really, there isn't much worth arguing about in the big scheme of things.) The key to a successful marriage, and listen closely, is simple....communication. And I'm not just talking about talking. For example, if you get into an argument, you need to be able to stop, take a breath, turn off the anger for a few minutes (that's the key part ) and have a quiet, simple ADULT conversation and come to some kind of compromise.. That's all it is. I don't have to write a book about the secrets of staying with your wife/husband forever because it's not needed. All that is needed is that one piece of advice I gave to you above. I just saved you a bunch of reading....you're welcome. Oh and one more thing, Never ever be too proud to say I'm sorry (even if you don't think it's your fault). That one phrase can do wonders on getting past an argument.

Sadly, a local high school football coach got killed in a car crash earlier today. That's a tragedy in itself, but even worse was that his 10 year old son was also killed and his 7 year old son is in critical condition. I wasn't in the car so I don't know all the facts of what went on and why he did it, but the dad apparantly pulled out in front of a big truck. Now, I admit, sometimes you might not see something or something distracts you, but when you have your children in the car with you, the fact is you need to make doubly sure everything is clear before pulling into a road. It's a shame so many lives were loss in that accident that could have been avoided with just a little more caution given.

It's also celebration time for Mikey D. today. For today is my wife's last day of teaching school this year...yes, it sounds more like celebration for her, but hold up, my friend.....I will now no longer have those tough early morning wake-ups to make breakfast for 2 spoiled kids plus get dressed and ready a one year old. That, by itself, is cause for joy. I only have to take a 13 year old to school for about one more week and then I'm free to wake up, get myself ready, and head to work....life will be so simple...

Okay, getting off this thing now. Gotta live me some life. Till next time.....